The approach

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At Nexus Crane Counselling, I believe healing begins with safety. When our bodies feel calm, our minds can think more clearly, process feelings, and learn new skills. That’s why I start by helping you or your child feel settled and supported before diving into problem-solving. If we’re stuck in survival mode—feeling anxious, shut down, or overwhelmed—our brain is mostly focused on protection, not growth. When this happens, talking about problems or trying new skills often feels too hard or it doesn’t really stick. Finding possible solutions feels like it is overwhelming and impossible.

In therapy, building connection helps us feel safe, which then makes healing, resting and learning possible. It’s like creating a strong foundation of a home before building more floors. Our approach and services offer a gentle way to regulate and establish a sense of safety in addition to other types of therapy.  

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Once our bodies feels calmer and more settled, our brain can:

  • Process memories and emotions with less distress

  • Be curious and open to new perspectives

  • Learn and practice skills like coping strategies, communication, and self-compassion

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